The first, as I have tried all sorts of things; a new living arrangement which has worked out spectacularly well, a new job – we are a few weeks in but it’s looking good to close my first deal before month end (so exciting) and a new business which could hold the key to a wonderful future. New friends – many of whom will be lifelong I’m sure and I have even dated – a step that was critical to take and thoroughly enjoyable. I am only at the start of what I am capable of achieving and the life I will go on to lead and I intend to keep trying, investing and stretching myself…I don’t know what my future holds but I know who holds my future…ME!
The current running under all of these aspects is my confidence in my own mind, instinct and ability to make the right decisions for me. To be able to trust your own gut is an ability that shouldn’t be taken lightly – besides, I will make mistakes, every human does – they may as well be my own it is the only way I will learn!
Following your gut allows you the confidence to speak your own mind, communicate your position and be confident of what you are saying. It takes time to be able to do this as standard. Sometimes you will hold back, I have and it hasn’t helped me in the slightest. I have kept quiet when I should’ve asked the questions; I’ve kept a guard when I should’ve expressed myself fully in actions as well as words. I do not see these as regrets I see this as learning about me. When you do lay it out as you feel it, you may not reach/experience the outcome you hope for, it may even hurt somewhat, but it will be the right outcome as you have been true to yourself, no point to living a lie my friends.
Living is about taking each day, some will be great some will be torturous but this is your life…live it. Feel the highs, feel the lows and have no regrets. No one can ask for more. My quote of the month is this……..
“I do not just want to live the length of my life; I want to live the breadth and depth out of it”
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